3rd Party’s perspective needed

[CJHen89]

I’ve been with my fiancé for 6 years. We’ve spent the last 12 months living with my parents to save for a house. Lot of arguments and threats of breaking up during that time, I’ve put it down to the stresses of living with my parents and constricted living. Now we have saved our money for our own place she now wants to move her 17 year old nephew in with us when we buy a house because his mother is moving away and he doesn’t want to go. I thought it would be our own space and place to be together finally! I’ve said No but she’s putting her foot down and saying it’s happening. I’m gutted and no longer want to buy house with her. If she says he won’t move in I can’t trust her not to do it when we buy our house. Totally lost on what to do from here! Do I go ahead and continue to buy the house with her? Or call it’s day?

[Bradwin]

Since she can't respect your opinion now that you both haven't yet bought the house, it will turn out worst when you both eventually buy the house. So, you might want to reconsider your steps.

[Lily]

I won't advice you rush into buying a house with her. Otherwise, you should expect more people in addition to her nephew when you both eventually buy the house.