What should I do :(

[Shannon00]

I've been in a relationship for a little over 6 months, everything was going so good up until about a month ago. My boyfriend has started sleeping constantly, he'll stay awake all night even after me telling him multiple times to try go to bed. And then I'll be invited to his house and he'll sleep the whole time I'm there. He basically sleeps around 8am till about 6pm, I get up super early and get ready and make so much effort, it's a 50minute walk from my house to his and he very rarely ever meets me, plus I walk home alone. I don't know what else to do, I miss him constantly and his sleepiness and putting a dampener and downer on our relationship and effecting me emotionally. I'm at a complete loss here. Ive told him so many times to see a doctor and that I'd support him no matter what but there's not much more I can take. Our relationship is fading away, it's like I don't know him that well. I don't want to be selfish but I've put so much effort in. I love him but he isn't taking any advice and I can't deal with much more. There's not much time for anything, we literally do nothing because he sleeps the whole time. There's no intimacy anymore, Im completely DEVISTATED.

[Michael]

It's just a sleeping pattern he adopted. So, he needs to consciously change this pattern. The only way he could change this is to avoid sleeping during the day even when he feels sleepy, so he can sleep at night.

You can help him achieve this by making him go out and not staying at home. You can both agree to see a movie at the cinema or anything that will be of interest to him. This will make him stay awake during the day, so he will be able to sleep at night.

He must maintain sleeping at night even after this day.

[Olivia]

I will suggest you tell him to sleep at night and not during the day. Make it clear to him that if he doesn't sleep at night you aren't coming to his house. You will only come when he sleeps at night, and stand by your words.

He will change when he hears this.