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So. There's a very long story behind this, but I'll try to keep it as short as possible.
My guy of 2 years and I have been in a bit of a rough patch lately, and prior to last night it had been about 3 weeks since we had been intimate. He's 6 years older than me, and when we first started dating, he had commented on my grooming habits "there." I adjusted them to his liking (which, without getting too graphic, was a LOT less work for me). So it's been roughly 2 years since I changed that. Last night, during our activities, he commented something similar to what he did when we first started dating, about how he likes it that way because he likes to feel like he's with a woman. It caught me off-guard, because that's nothing new with us. It seemed like a bizarre comment from him, and given that we were in this rough patch and haven't been sleeping together, it definitely put it in my head that maybe he had been sleeping with someone else. We were NEVER on a break, we have always been together (by his own admission and reassurance), but we were working through some issues. It just made me a little uneasy when he said that, but I'm an over-thinker and I could be making it into more than what it is.
Is it worth bringing this to him? I'd almost hate to disturb the peace because we're finally getting back to firmer ground. Thoughts, folks?
My guy of 2 years and I have been in a bit of a rough patch lately, and prior to last night it had been about 3 weeks since we had been intimate. He's 6 years older than me, and when we first started dating, he had commented on my grooming habits "there." I adjusted them to his liking (which, without getting too graphic, was a LOT less work for me). So it's been roughly 2 years since I changed that. Last night, during our activities, he commented something similar to what he did when we first started dating, about how he likes it that way because he likes to feel like he's with a woman. It caught me off-guard, because that's nothing new with us. It seemed like a bizarre comment from him, and given that we were in this rough patch and haven't been sleeping together, it definitely put it in my head that maybe he had been sleeping with someone else. We were NEVER on a break, we have always been together (by his own admission and reassurance), but we were working through some issues. It just made me a little uneasy when he said that, but I'm an over-thinker and I could be making it into more than what it is.
Is it worth bringing this to him? I'd almost hate to disturb the peace because we're finally getting back to firmer ground. Thoughts, folks?
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