Need some advice please

[MARVELLegion]

So I've been with this girl for almost 6 months now, and I've got a bit of a problem. She's my first ever girlfriend, and being my first and how I'm so inexperienced with everything and with the way I used to feel about relationships, I said that I wasn't too interested in sex. And it was all fine at first, we'd still do other fun lewd things together, but in the last 2 months or so we've stopped doing those things. She says that because of what I said, she feels uncomfortable doing things with me, even though I've explained to her that I really want to do those things and that I love them. I've already been thinking of finding someone else since she's poly-amorous, but I don't want to leave her because she's so amazing for me and I love our cuddles together and being with her and all of that, but I also really want to do lewd things with her. I just don't know what to do to help her be comfortable with seeing me in a sexual way again and no matter how much I show her that I want to do lewd things, it doesn't seem like she's much interested in trying. I want to at least keep what we have, the cuddles and the fun times together, but I also want more but I'm also scared that my feelings for her would ruin any other relationships I try to have with others (if I can even find someone else because it took me 9 months on tinder and 21 years of life to even be with this one) Some advice would be greatly appreciated and I thank you so much for reading this far, sorry if it's a lot to read and take in.

[Bella]

One thing you must realize is that sex is important to any woman, it proves to a woman that you truly love her. So, telling her you aren't interested in sex implies you aren't attracted to her anymore. Even if you don't see it this way, that's how she sees it.

Therefore, the only way to establish the connection with her again is to re-establish sex.

[Bradwin]

If you aren't interested in sex, then you shouldn't be interested in a relationship with a girl. No sex in relationship will only work when you have never had sex with a girl, and make it know at the beginning of the relationship. However, if you have had sex with a girl, telling her you aren't interested in sex means you are telling her you don't love her again.

The fact is that if you leave this girl for someone else, you are still going to be engaged in sex. So the best thing to do is to stay single.