I miss her but it feels like I'm just disturbing her.

[doubtmind26]

I know my girlfriend is a very busy person since she’s the one managing their business now. It’s just that, I need some of her time too. Even 10 minutes of her time everyday is enough. I just want to know if she is doing fine. I just want her to show that she is loving me for real too. I also need actions and not just words. But everytime I ask for a little time from her, it feels like I’m only disturbing her. I don’t know why she’s like that. I’m not demanding anything from her but just that. Is that really hard to give?

[Rob]

Since she is very busy because of the business she's managing, it will be a good idea to go visit her often in her business place. This will help you to spend time with her.

[Shirley]

Obviously, she's busy and not deliberately deciding not to spend time with you. I think you should be supportive and not self-centered. You both can decide to spend time with each other on Sunday's when she's less busy.

[doubtmind26]

Since she is very busy because of the business she's managing, it will be a good idea to go visit her often in her business place. This will help you to spend time with her.

I do visit her but she doesn't like the idea though. I don't know if she is doing this on purpose.

[doubtmind26]

Obviously, she's busy and not deliberately deciding not to spend time with you. I think you should be supportive and not self-centered. You both can decide to spend time with each other on Sunday's when she's less busy.

I tried not to be self-centered but I'm having a bad feeling about this.

[Realigned]

How about asking her something like, "Hey, I know you've been really busy lately, but I'm feeling like our connection in the relationship might be in jeopardy. Do you feel the same way? If so, I'd love to have a conversation around how we could find a few quick/easy ways to stay connected through this busy season for you. Would you like that?"