Am I just overthinking or she really isn't into me anymore?

[overthinking25]

I have been with my girlfriend for five years and with all those years, she never failed in loving me and showing how much she does. However, just recently, things have changed. She used to be so sweet. She never misses a day to message me before, but now she barely even texts me. She used to call me all the time asking if I have already eaten and whatnots, yet now she does not seem to want to talk to me anymore. I can’t help but think that she’s not into me anymore. I don’t know if this is true or if I am just overthinking?

[Realigned]

After 5 years, I assume you would have some sort of gauge as to the overall health of your relationship. So my guess is you already know (in your heart, not in your mind) the answer to this. But if not, have you thought to ask her how she feels? If she does not seem to want to talk to you anymore, don't you think that might be worth exploring with her...rather than making assumptions or creating scenarios in your mind?

[Nora]

I think the spark in your relationship isn't there anymore. She might still be into you but doesn't feel the same way she did in the past. So you need to work on your relationship to bring back the lost spark.

[Brett]

You have been in a relationship with her for years, so don't expect the relationship to be as it were before. The longer a relationship last, the more passion is lost. However you can bring back the passion by treating her nicely.

[overthinking25]

I think the spark in your relationship isn't there anymore. She might still be into you but doesn't feel the same way she did in the past. So you need to work on your relationship to bring back the lost spark.

If it is, I think we should try exciting activities or staycations to bring back what we've lost. Thanks!

[overthinking25]

You have been in a relationship with her for years, so don't expect the relationship to be as it were before. The longer a relationship last, the more passion is lost. However you can bring back the passion by treating her nicely.

I do treat her nicely. Maybe we just got used to have each other. I think what we need to do now is to spend time together to figure out things. Thanks!

[overthinking25]

After 5 years, I assume you would have some sort of gauge as to the overall health of your relationship. So my guess is you already know (in your heart, not in your mind) the answer to this. But if not, have you thought to ask her how she feels? If she does not seem to want to talk to you anymore, don't you think that might be worth exploring with her...rather than making assumptions or creating scenarios in your mind?

Yeah, right! My bad. Gonna talk to her about this because it's getting really toxic. Thanks!