Ex confusion

[Bee415]

Hi
im new on here so this is my first post

Basically my ex broke up with me in July. He said he was feeling suffocated and wasn't sure what he wanted
wanted
We carried on meeting for sex for the next few weeks. Bad I know....
But he said he didn't want to lead me on so I blocked him and hadn't spoken to him for a couple of weeks...

Well yesterday I stupidly sent him a message asking if we could meet and talk (we were together for 2 years and I genuinely saw us together in years time)
He text back and said no sorry.
So rather than pleading with him I left it at that and didn't pester him again

But late last night out of the blue he called me.
I missed his first call and he called again which I answered and we spoke for over an hour just chatting away but I know not to get my hopes up so I played it cool and said I was happy now. He talked about how we went to Jamaica together and how we had some good times then he said he still thinks about me and was asking me if I was seeing anybody else (played that cool and said it wasn't really his business)
He told me he was seeing someone else and I said good for you

he said he probably couldn't see us getting back together


So why did he call??! I know I asked to talk but he said no and I wasn't expecting anything else from him

[Scot]

He called you probably because he still have feelings for you. No doubt, he still loves you and finding it difficult to get over you. However, I will advice you don't get your hopes up but make plans to move on with your life.

[Rachael]

he said he probably couldn't see us getting back together

He has clearly told you he isn't getting back together with you, so move on with your life. You will be making a huge mistake if you continue hoping he will come back to you.

[Janegemma]

Either 2 things are at play here. One he's still got feelings for you. or 2 he needs closure. I honestly think he still got feelings for you. He even admitted it. He even asked you if you were seeing someone. Now what would he even care enough to ask? I'm not saying to get your hopes up. Because if he's confused about what he wants then maybe this isn't someone for you. You need a man sure about himself, not one who is unsure about himself. Yes I know you 2 maybe were deeply in love. Funny thing is he even brought up times about Jamaica? I mean is he trying to stur up old memories? Your self being is the most important part, NO one is above that. And why would he say "I'm seeing someone?" I know how hard it can be being in love, I was there. but for the better, I cut the bullshit out of my life that was dead weight. Find someone truly worthy of your time

[TheDarkOne]

You're a booty call and an ego boost when he's low. Move on.