Hello, some "inside info" first 
Me and my ex broke up 1 year ago (it was my first love, insecurity and neediness paid a big role, I begged cried etc... Im over that). We started to talk to each other about month ago, she started to treat me like a friend so I had to set my boundaries and told her that we are not friends and never will be (I still care for her too much to be friends, though I don't love her... ya know first love). About a week ago I invited her to go on a "night ride" with me in my car, just two of us. I dont even know if I can consider this as a date, but she said: "Why do you want to go out with only me when we arent even friends? If we were friends, okay but like this?" After me replying to her that I want to drive with her and that she will have a great time with me, she accepted... The thing is, I do want to know her, I still like her and understand why the breakup happened. Im not craving for her, since the breakup I had a plenty of girls but now she appeared in my life and our relationship was only 3 months long, maybe this time it could go better who knows, in the end she isnt the only girl in the Universe.
My question for you guys is, how should I behave in front of her? Should I try to seduce her, should I compliment her or what should I do? I texted her that it's just you, me and stars in my car listening to music (she liked it a lot when we were driving with her friends last time). Im planning to smoke some weed with her (she smokes sometimes, I do too so why not?) and just lay down on the grass and watch the stars. I don't know if I should compliment her looks. You know, it's not a typical "date" or "hang out" with a girl, this one is kind of complicated because of the past experience with her. I changed a lot since the breakup and so did she, but I can say both of us "rised" for the better.
Can you give me some advice on what to do? Im a little bit confused at the moment.
Thank you all
lots of love!

Me and my ex broke up 1 year ago (it was my first love, insecurity and neediness paid a big role, I begged cried etc... Im over that). We started to talk to each other about month ago, she started to treat me like a friend so I had to set my boundaries and told her that we are not friends and never will be (I still care for her too much to be friends, though I don't love her... ya know first love). About a week ago I invited her to go on a "night ride" with me in my car, just two of us. I dont even know if I can consider this as a date, but she said: "Why do you want to go out with only me when we arent even friends? If we were friends, okay but like this?" After me replying to her that I want to drive with her and that she will have a great time with me, she accepted... The thing is, I do want to know her, I still like her and understand why the breakup happened. Im not craving for her, since the breakup I had a plenty of girls but now she appeared in my life and our relationship was only 3 months long, maybe this time it could go better who knows, in the end she isnt the only girl in the Universe.
My question for you guys is, how should I behave in front of her? Should I try to seduce her, should I compliment her or what should I do? I texted her that it's just you, me and stars in my car listening to music (she liked it a lot when we were driving with her friends last time). Im planning to smoke some weed with her (she smokes sometimes, I do too so why not?) and just lay down on the grass and watch the stars. I don't know if I should compliment her looks. You know, it's not a typical "date" or "hang out" with a girl, this one is kind of complicated because of the past experience with her. I changed a lot since the breakup and so did she, but I can say both of us "rised" for the better.
Can you give me some advice on what to do? Im a little bit confused at the moment.
Thank you all

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