Guy needing a girls take.

[Internetuser]

Ok so im a guy and im sensing that ive badly hurt someone close to me who i do care about alot the reason i say sensing is because i can see she is punishing me and i dont know why!? Ive done everything i possibly can to try and sort this out i cant do anymore but its still not enough. I just want to know why she wont just tell me what it is why would she continue to keep it to herself whilst just making a fool of herself trying to punish me?? I feel terrible that i cannot remember what i could of done given that it has had such an effect, i feel this is what is making her continue to punish me, i want a girls point of view is she being unreasonable or am i for not remembering? Choosing to keep this up also makes me think she wants to fix this because otherwise she would just move on surely.

Thanks.

[Nora]

People have different attitude and ways they deal with issues. I think this girl in question is secretive, that explains why can't communicative her feelings. However, continue to be nice to her and she will eventually forgive you.

[Lily]

Obviously, you did something that hurt her and that's why she's treating you badly. She assumes you know what you did wrong, whereas you have no idea about what you have done.

So, I'll suggest you have a one-on-one talk with her and let her know you won't know what you have done unless she tell you. Also, let her know that you are willing to apologize. I know she will open up to you once you tell her this.