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    Hello there, thanks for clicking. So last night my girlfriend and I were at a party, and she was very drunk. She told me that she was really glad I was there because, as she said, "you know when you get to that level of drunk and your decision making abilities are compromised" and that she would never want to hurt me, so she was really glad I was there. I am trying my best to understand her perspective, so I am actually hoping you can play devils advocate with me, I am basically trying to figure out if this is worth asking her to clarify what she meant now that she is sober, or is it a "fight" that will be more straining than helpful. I feel like I should be able to trust my partner not to get to that level or put herself in a risky situation. But then again, I know trust is a foundation of a relationship, she has never cheated, and if she did, then we'd talk about that, but yeah, basically is that just some drunk comment that she somehow twistedly meant to be romantic, or is this something I should ask her about? Thanks for your thoughts!

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    Originally posted by matt54321
    She told me that she was really glad I was there because, as she said, "you know when you get to that level of drunk and your decision making abilities are compromised" and that she would never want to hurt me
    She was simply referring to a situation whereby she might be enticed to sleep with another guy because she was drunk. However, this is just a statement and not an action, She only imagined such situation but didn't do it. So, I'll advice you ignore what she said and move on because it's nothing serious to worry about.

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      If what she said bothers you, then bring it up in a polite manner. Also, it's best to discuss about it with her to avoid you imagining and becoming resentful.

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