How do I bring this up with him?

[RBates14]

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now, and recently, things just seem strained. Fights are more frequent, and little things we used to adore about each other are getting on the other's nerves.
He's my longest lasting, and healthiest by far, relationship, I still love him, I don't want it all to end, but I know we need to talk. I don't know how to bring this up to him, I don't even know whered I'd begin.
I'm worried that this might be the beginning of the end. I'm up late at night worrying about this long after he's gone to sleep, and I don't even know if he realizes that everything is different.

[Clay]

I'll suggest you talk about your relationships problem with him. The fact is that, if you don't talk about the problem, your relationship will continue to get worse. However, don't accuse him when you bring up the issue. Simply say it as a problem that need to be addressed, this way you will avoid conflict and possible breakup.

[Ella]

Relationship communication is a common problem among couples regardless of the status. Dating couples usually experienced a lot of relationship communication and relationship issues because the persons involve in the relationship do not want to listen. Most men I met want women to listen to them especially when they are talking about relationship issues. They only want the woman to make the adjustments. Then put a dot at the end of their sentence - That's IT!

This scene could be the worst nightmare of any woman. Communicating without really listening, for most part, in the side of the man, is very frustrating and irritating. This is especially true if you haven't settled the argument yet and he does not want to talk anymore. Relationship communication problems emerged from the unwillingness of men to settle relationship problems. They would just keep quite, prefer to talk with other topics, and the next thing you know, the problem recurs. Men hate drama, women hate drama too. The only big difference is that women prefer to talk and communicate any relationship issues before it worsen. Men prefer to be silent and talk about relationship problems when it already is in its worst state.

If you talk about relationship problems, men should really sit in and talk to solve relationship issues. The best thing to make a woman stop talking about relationship problems is to really talk it out and settle whatever the problem between you and her is. I am not talking about making men crazy or driving them insane with a woman's blah blah. What I would like to emphasize in this discussion, is just to listen and communicate relationship issues. Relationship communication problem is very common among dating couples because most men usual behavior and reaction at the start of the discussion is to close their minds in such a way that they find it hard to even hear facts and see the discussion in the perspective of women.

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