I’m having relationship problems...

[Dannyboy123]

ok right so before I get started I feel like an absolute asshole for feeling the way I do ok? I wish I didn’t feel like this

I have been in a relationship for a few weeks now and my girlfriend told me she is greysexual meaning she doesn’t feel the need to have sexual intercourse

i am am a very sexual person and this information has scared me as I was looking forward to a sexual relationship with her aswell and a romantic one too.

im just asking this to figure out what I should do in this situation.

i love this girl a lot but I’m scared

[Clinton]

If you are a sexual person and she is grey-sexual, it implies you both aren't compatible. So you need to reconsider being in a relationship with her.

[Ella]

If what you want in a relationship is sex, then it's obvious this relationship isn't going to work.

[anonymouslysad]

If you look forward to having sex more in a relationship than having an actual connection with someone, maybe you shouldn't be in one. Chances are you two won't be able to work because her knowing that you do want to have sex, might make her feel pressured to give in and not be fully happy. If you want to be with someone who can offer you sex like she can't and/or doesn't, then maybe you shouldn't be with her.

[TheDarkOne]

Long term it won't work. You'll end up frustrated and unhappy. It's only been a few weeks so it's still early to move on.

[smackie9]

This why we date...to figure out each other's expectations, likes and dislikes, and opinions on things. She put it out there that she's not a sexual person. This is a deal breaker for you. No sense is dragging this out any longer. Tell her that is saddens you that she is that way because sex is a big part of what you expect out of a relaitonship.Then wish her all the best. Move on.

It's only been a few weeks. That's hardly time invested.