Am I doing the right thing?

[Bon96]

So basically Ive being seeing this girl for about 8months and I honestly adore her. Like she is honestly someone I care deeply about and although I haven't told her yet I'd go as far as to say I love her. But she has alot of emotional problems that stem from alot of different things and she bottles them up really badly. I could always tell she was and my thoughts were confirmed when she drank far to much one night with just me and ended up in tears crying everything out to me. I'm not going to go into it out of respect for her. The problem I have is that when I first met her she was into drugs; Mandy, ket, weed and lsd. The honest truth is so I am. when I first met her I thought this was cool and awesome and started doing them with her when ever we met up you know just getting fucked out of our faces it seemed like fun. As time went on I've kinda realised what impact it's having on her; fired from her job because she stole, not turning upto to interviews and other things. Basically I'm not judging her for doing any of that honestly I can understand why she did it all. But I I just feel like ive being sat there helping her hurt herself and think I need to remove myself from her life. I've being telling myself I care about her and love her but how can I say any of that if I've being helping her fuck everything up. She's asked to meet in person in a couple of days and honestly I just kinda want to know if anyone has any experience with this? Is it right for me to just leave and hope she comes to sort it out herself or should I stay there at the risk Ill just help her hurt herself.

[Gray]

If you are doing drugs with her, then you are doing the wrong thing being around her. However, you can only be around her if you stop doing drug and help her change from doing it.

[Sandra]

If you know you influence her negatively to do drugs, it's better you stop seeing her.

[smackie9]

I think you should quit doing drugs and get your life together...together. I know you are not her therapist, but running away isn't going to help her. She obviously needs more than "hey lets quite together", she does need counseling. If you can convince her to do that, then you have done your part, even if you don't stick around...at least give her direction.