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Advice needed. Potential scary situation but would like to know if I am over thinking it. I live in apt with two friends. I met my building manager two years ago. We both have feelings for each other. He drunkenly told me he loved me but then denied when brought up sober. He has a kid. I do not. He is 34. I am 26.
He told me about his record. He went to jail for a little bit because he had possession of Heroine and was addicted to it.This was over 10 years ago and he has been sober ever since. But then I️ did some research, that wasn’t it. He also got evicted from his last place (idk how he’s the building manager now at our place) has to go to rehab, and also got in trouble for intimidated a witness.
We had a third roommate move into our place. My other roommate texted him and said, hey, can we get her on the lease please? He said yeah, I’ll come up with the stuff soon. Three weeks go by and we NEVER hear from him. We were all three (roommates) were in the living room and I️ said. "Has he really not come up yet with the lease? She’s living here and she needs to get on it? What an asshole!" He has NEVER come up without texting or calling to make sure someone was home. he lives on floor 1, we live on floor 3. 10 min later after I️ said that comment I️ was in the kitchen. No ones phone goes off. But there’s a knock on our door and it’s him with two leases. And says. "Hey! Sorry this took so long, you guys must think I’m such an asshole."
Second. Our shower was making a weird noise. I told him. He came up to fix it. The next day, I took a shower. It made the noise again. 10 min after the shower I get a text that says, "is your shower still making that noise". I said, yeah. He said, ok i’ll come up tomorrow. The next day comes and he doesn’t text me. I take a shower at like 7:30 and it makes the noise. I get out of the shower and ten min later he says, you home. I say yeah, he comes up. When he got there and I said, "how did you know that the shower was making that noise". He said, oh, I was in the apt below you and heard it.
He follows me on Instgram. He never posts but I know he goes on there because a couple times he would only bring up stuff he could have known about me unless he looked at my Instagram. I went on a small day trip with my guy friend. I posted a picture on Instagram of my friend and I. I said, "in my favorite place, with my favorite person". I had not seen my building manager in FOUR weeks. Not even a shadow. I left my apartment at 5 am that day. Posted the picture at noon. And got home at 9 pm. After not seeing this dudes shadow for 4 weeks, I came home, parked my car in our garage and I walked towards the stairs to go upstairs and he comes running down the hall. He’s like "hey how’s it going, i forgot my checkbook in my car"
Finally, Tuesday, I got home at 330 I went upstairs to get some stuff done. I was by my window at my desk around 4 and I saw him pull up and park about 50 yards in front of me. I feel asleep and I woke up at 7:50 and had to leave at 8 to go somewhere. I woke up, looked at the clock and said, shit I need to leave in 5. 5 minutes go by and I was in my room getting ready and I heard his truck door slam and his truck turn on. 5 minutes go by and I look outside and his car is still there, on, him sitting in it. I needed to go so I left. I get into my car and turn it on. We are both facing South. He pulls away as I pull away. I went to turn around in my driveway and he was turning around down the street. So now we are both facing North. He was right behind me. I turned left. He turned left. We are both going West. I keep going West and at the next big intersection, he goes left, so now he is going South. His car was facing South to begin with and he turned around just to go the same direction. The reason I know this is weird is because I have seen him leave before. He always has his car facing the way he is leaving, we all do that. Also, there is no reason for him to do that, the roads are clear and he could’ve just stayed south.
Am I overthinking these situations? Should I be concerned? Wtf is his deal?
He told me about his record. He went to jail for a little bit because he had possession of Heroine and was addicted to it.This was over 10 years ago and he has been sober ever since. But then I️ did some research, that wasn’t it. He also got evicted from his last place (idk how he’s the building manager now at our place) has to go to rehab, and also got in trouble for intimidated a witness.
We had a third roommate move into our place. My other roommate texted him and said, hey, can we get her on the lease please? He said yeah, I’ll come up with the stuff soon. Three weeks go by and we NEVER hear from him. We were all three (roommates) were in the living room and I️ said. "Has he really not come up yet with the lease? She’s living here and she needs to get on it? What an asshole!" He has NEVER come up without texting or calling to make sure someone was home. he lives on floor 1, we live on floor 3. 10 min later after I️ said that comment I️ was in the kitchen. No ones phone goes off. But there’s a knock on our door and it’s him with two leases. And says. "Hey! Sorry this took so long, you guys must think I’m such an asshole."
Second. Our shower was making a weird noise. I told him. He came up to fix it. The next day, I took a shower. It made the noise again. 10 min after the shower I get a text that says, "is your shower still making that noise". I said, yeah. He said, ok i’ll come up tomorrow. The next day comes and he doesn’t text me. I take a shower at like 7:30 and it makes the noise. I get out of the shower and ten min later he says, you home. I say yeah, he comes up. When he got there and I said, "how did you know that the shower was making that noise". He said, oh, I was in the apt below you and heard it.
He follows me on Instgram. He never posts but I know he goes on there because a couple times he would only bring up stuff he could have known about me unless he looked at my Instagram. I went on a small day trip with my guy friend. I posted a picture on Instagram of my friend and I. I said, "in my favorite place, with my favorite person". I had not seen my building manager in FOUR weeks. Not even a shadow. I left my apartment at 5 am that day. Posted the picture at noon. And got home at 9 pm. After not seeing this dudes shadow for 4 weeks, I came home, parked my car in our garage and I walked towards the stairs to go upstairs and he comes running down the hall. He’s like "hey how’s it going, i forgot my checkbook in my car"
Finally, Tuesday, I got home at 330 I went upstairs to get some stuff done. I was by my window at my desk around 4 and I saw him pull up and park about 50 yards in front of me. I feel asleep and I woke up at 7:50 and had to leave at 8 to go somewhere. I woke up, looked at the clock and said, shit I need to leave in 5. 5 minutes go by and I was in my room getting ready and I heard his truck door slam and his truck turn on. 5 minutes go by and I look outside and his car is still there, on, him sitting in it. I needed to go so I left. I get into my car and turn it on. We are both facing South. He pulls away as I pull away. I went to turn around in my driveway and he was turning around down the street. So now we are both facing North. He was right behind me. I turned left. He turned left. We are both going West. I keep going West and at the next big intersection, he goes left, so now he is going South. His car was facing South to begin with and he turned around just to go the same direction. The reason I know this is weird is because I have seen him leave before. He always has his car facing the way he is leaving, we all do that. Also, there is no reason for him to do that, the roads are clear and he could’ve just stayed south.
Am I overthinking these situations? Should I be concerned? Wtf is his deal?
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