Hey guys! I'm confused.

[MarcoT]

Hey everyone, I signed up to this site because I wanted other's insight on my recent issue. Im a male, I've always been straight, I have always fallen in love with girls and could imagine living a life with them, but never with men. However, I find men attractive and sexually arousing. It's come to the point where I feel as if vaginas look more disgusting than men's penises. I'm confused about what i identify as since I am romantically attracted and sexually attracted (although now leaning more to men) to women but not at all attracted to men romantically but I enjoy looking at sexual male material etc. When I was younger I was also very curious about like anal stuff. I remember when I was younger that I would get crazy over women's bodies and genitals and I would get really sexually excited and much less with men. However now, as mentioned before, I find penis very arousing and I see women's genitals as sorta gross.

Any thoughts?

[Rob]

This is all in your head. Start thinking differently and your mind will be renewed. Your sexual attraction for men emanates from your thoughts and mind, so tell yourself it's unnatural and wrong. If you can convince yourself that it's bad, then your though will begin to shift to being attracted to women only.

[Becky]

Being sexually attracted to men as a man is against nature, and it's morally wrong by any standard. However, I'll advice you seek help from a counselor. Consulting a counselor will help you change this situation.

[MarcoT]

Surely both of your answers are biased? Of course homosexuality is unnatural biologically but it isn't unnatural as so many people are indeed homosexual.

[Marie]

I am not for or against homosexuality. I am a woman attracted to and only interested in men. However, I think the female body is beautiful. Does not mean I am sexually attracted to women. If you have such strong feelings though, as long as you are single, pursue your feelings and see how far they let you go. Trust your gut and do not have regrets only lessons. You may get into a situation that makes you very uncomfortable and you will have to deal with it and the consequences or you may end up in a situation that puts a whole new light on your world.