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I met an amazing guy who helped me get through a breakup from a very toxic 9-year relationship. We met a few months before starting to really take notice of each other, and quickly realized we had a lot in common. Since then things progressed very quickly and almost everything has been going well. We communicate openly and respectfully, he uses "we" when he speaks of his future, he values my opinion and includes me in every business decision he makes, he motivates me and constantly affirms his love for me. He treats me well, cares about my feelings, strengthens my insecurities, spends all the time he can with me and publicly acknowledges me as his lady. I have fallen in love with him and he says (and I believe) he has fallen in love with me. The issue is that he has a baby on the way with a woman he has been with for 2 years.
He is not married to this woman, however, they have acquired properties together, live together and earlier this year decided to have a baby. She was unfaithful to him in the past but he decided to forgive her and they worked past it although he was still hurting. He says he not been truly happy since then and she knows it, but having been through other failed relationships in the past, he did not want to start over with someone else and instead sacrificed his happiness by staying with her. Then he met me and fell in love and as much as I see where we could have an amazing life together I feel terrible knowing that for us to be together he will have to break this woman's heart. He decided not to make any moves her until after the baby is born but she is sensing something is changing and she is being blindsided because as far as she knew they were good. He wants to be with me and no matter what he (we) will always take care of his child. He still cares for her and she loves him though. He know he deserves to be happy but I do not feel right about hurting this woman and do not know what the best thing to do is.
He is not married to this woman, however, they have acquired properties together, live together and earlier this year decided to have a baby. She was unfaithful to him in the past but he decided to forgive her and they worked past it although he was still hurting. He says he not been truly happy since then and she knows it, but having been through other failed relationships in the past, he did not want to start over with someone else and instead sacrificed his happiness by staying with her. Then he met me and fell in love and as much as I see where we could have an amazing life together I feel terrible knowing that for us to be together he will have to break this woman's heart. He decided not to make any moves her until after the baby is born but she is sensing something is changing and she is being blindsided because as far as she knew they were good. He wants to be with me and no matter what he (we) will always take care of his child. He still cares for her and she loves him though. He know he deserves to be happy but I do not feel right about hurting this woman and do not know what the best thing to do is.
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