Give me an advice pls.

[RandomBloke]

Hello everyone ,

Cutting to the chase , I have a crush on someone , Unfortunately We are in different departments so basically the chances of meeting her is like 0.1% as I only meet her once a week in a lecture in which we share the same subject.

She doesn't really notice me , But during this semester I started feeling like I have a crush on her, I gradually started peeking around watching her behaviors and stuff and I just realized I'm kinda attracted to her or Like our personalities would match up together.

I don't really think she notices me as much as I do , Cus as i said we are in different departments , we just happened to be in one same lecture once a week during this semester , And You know , If you're interested in someone you gotta keeping paying attention.

From what I have noticed , she is a humble shy person , she is always around her friends , I don't really have the guts to go straightforward talking to her as she doesn't know me and we barely even meet , and actually we both seem to be the introvert type.

I honestly pawed through the facebook search until I found her account. and Now I'm thinking about directly messaging her without sending a friend request , Asking her to get to know each other more. But , I'm just kinda undecided and afraid of the consequences or like what's beyond that ? , I mean Whether that would be upsetting or not. As for me , I respect anyone's choice, I'm just someone who's considerate, shy , introvert and self possessed at the same time , I always want to please someone and always act discreetly.

At the same time , I'm a bit worried we won't be able to even meet again due to the fact that we are in different departments, moreover , It's my graduation year.

So what do you guys think is best in this situation ?

Thanks in advance.

[Olivia]

I'll advice you send her a friend request on Facebook, get to interact with her normally on Facebook. When you have establish friendship with her, you can then tell how exactly how you feel about her.

[RandomBloke]

Thanks for your reply Olivia

You know Girls might be different regarding that matter , Some of them would accept a friend request , some not , Even though It would appear in my infos , that we are in the same uni.

Don't you think she would feel like sketched out If i outrightly sent her a friend request ? Like isn't it more preferable to genuinely introduce yourself in a message , Just like taking the pulse somewhat ? I don't know ..

[Michael]

It takes a lot of work and difficulty in winning a girl's heart. It is considered an art by most men. Have you ever wished that you can just walk up to that girl, propose, and she would just say yes instantly? There are many men out there who share your same problem. Most men often get shy and tongue tied when they are in front of the woman he likes. He may have everything in the world, but still would have to idea on how to win the heart of the woman he loves.

The key to winning a girl is self-confidence. If you are confident enough that you will win her, then she's already yours. Most girls look for security in a relationship and security can be equated to confidence. Show her that she can be secure with you because you are reliable.

Also, remember to keep your appearance neat and tidy. Most women find it a turn off if you are unkempt, and messy and dirty looking. Take good care of how you dress, and how you groom yourself. Make yourself look presentable when you are going out or when you are going to talk to her. Remember to brush your hair, cut your nails, brush your teeth. Win her over with making sure that she knows how special she is in your heart. Learn to listen when she speaks, and speak of her nicely and fondly in front of your friends and family. Make her feel how proud you are that you are with her.

Drop some sincere and honest compliments about her every now and then. Women like to be appreciated. Always remember to be the best man that you can be for her. Use your best cologne and your best clothes when you go out but do not overdo it. A woman can easily be turned off if you are trying to hard to impress her. Always remember to do all my tips subtly.

Always remember that women are fickle and moody. Learn to be familiar with her moods. Make sure that you are honest and sincere with her. Do not be self-centered. Make sure that you make it a point to pamper her and make her feel special. Learn to listen when she's talking and make her feel as if you are so mesmerized with her. Always remember that the key to winning a girl is by knowing what she wants and giving it to her.

[RandomBloke]

Thanks Michael
I wholly understand and appreciate your tips and generous advice , So you think It's better to straight up talk to her in person ?
She seems to be the shy type as me , She always around her friends. She is hardly by herself , and as I said previously , It's kind of complicated to even meet her ..