How to go about it

[Speranta18]

So my guy is suposse to come at end of this month from travelling overseas after 3 months...he messaged me lately saying he might have to see a doctor for not being able to sleep and see if need surgery ...next time he told me he wants to go travel with me and then that he lost his passport or someone stole it.. And it costs a lot to replace it... And he might delay about couple of weeks because of money issue and he is focusing on resolving the matter...when i looked on how much it cost to replace passport things and numbers do not add up....i want to help him.His family is here and also some overthere...He never posted nothing about loosing his documents but posts about different things...he did not ask me right away hey can u send me money ,but im getting the vibe he is in need ...shall i offer to send him money or wait for him to resolve it ?

[bunnyhabit]

you should let him handle his problems as well as caring about you as his first priority. Excuses like losing passport is suspicious like my dog ate my homework. keep close attention to his behavior as a possible cheater. do not become a sugar mom for your man to retain his respect for you.

[Speranta18]

you should let him handle his problems as well as caring about you as his first priority. Excuses like losing passport is suspicious like my dog ate my homework. keep close attention to his behavior as a possible cheater. do not become a sugar mom for your man to retain his respect for you.

Yea...probably the best way

[bunnyhabit]

let me know results if you follow my advice