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when you're 25- 30, you just say "of course I will be a mom, I'll simply feel it and it'll happen!"
so when my bf proposed, I said yes
he's always been clear , he wants kids.
now we're 35 and .... don't feel that instinct AT ALL. Don't want kids. OR, at least, not yet.
I told my husband, although I feel terrible. I was too shallow, I should have told him "I am not sure" right away instead of " of course kids will come too!"
but I swear I was SURE I would eventually feel it.
so now I feel so guilty cos I am basically ruining his life. He loves me of course, but maybe he would not have married me if he had known.
What shall I do?
so when my bf proposed, I said yes
he's always been clear , he wants kids.
now we're 35 and .... don't feel that instinct AT ALL. Don't want kids. OR, at least, not yet.
I told my husband, although I feel terrible. I was too shallow, I should have told him "I am not sure" right away instead of " of course kids will come too!"
but I swear I was SURE I would eventually feel it.
so now I feel so guilty cos I am basically ruining his life. He loves me of course, but maybe he would not have married me if he had known.
What shall I do?