Does loving mean getting hurt all the time in the end?

[adaline]

When I was younger, my parents taught me that love is a beautiful thing and that it’s the most wonderful feeling an individual could feel. They taught me that I should love without condition and that I should love without regrets. I grew up believing that. I had my first boyfriend when I was 18 and everything seemed magical to me that time; I couldn’t get enough of the fact of him loving me. Unfortunately, it didn't work out for the both of us. I was heartbroken but I still held on to what I have learned from my parents. I kept loving until I became too broken that now, I could not fix myself. Tell me, is this supposed to be love? Until when will it keep hurting? When will it last? When will it stop or will it ever stop?

[Ben]

The reason you keep getting hurt is because you choose to be with the wrong guys. You make wrong decisions when it come to dating guys, and so you need to change that.

[Caroline]

I think you are making lots of mistakes when it comes to loving a guy. You must learn to work with your head and not so much of your heart. If you follow your emotions, you are definitely going to end up with the wrong guy.

[adaline]

I guess I should be using my brain than my heart. The thing is,it is easier said than done.