Hi, I am new

[Jessica]

I have been with my man for 10 years. Without vomiting everything...... I have lost respect and love for him. Not sure if I can ever get it back.

[Jessica]

After posting, I read some others and I guess I need more details.
My husband has found interest in other wamen (3x) Nothing sexual but enough to not put me first.
I went through a period of time where I was very sick and he chose to pursue someone else instead of being there for me. Told everyone it was all in my head even after multiple doctors said I was lucky to be alive.
He corrects me in front of others ALL the time.
Blames everything on work. I call BS.
Can’t do anything himself. I have to help take out the garbage or change the cat box.....
Says I am too much of an Alfa and he isn’t going to lay on his back like a whipped dog. (What the hell does that mean???)
I think he fakes being happy for a week or two then his true unhappy nastyness comes out.
I have tried to kick him out but he won’t leave. To be honest.... I paid for the house and like the fact he pays the monthly bills so I don’t have to work.
Could a Ford things on my own but would be super tight!
uggg!

[Vivian]

I believe you can still love your husband again. Misunderstanding is bound to happen in every marriage and we ought to deal with the issue wisely in other to save our marriage.

I'll advice you talk to him about your feelings and let him know what you don't like. Communication is important to have a happy marriage, so always communicate your feelings with him.

[Anthony]

Emotional affairs happen because of various reasons. For example, the wife no longer satisfies the emotional needs of her husband. They do not talk as much anymore and the wife does not take care of her husband like before. Or the husband, on the other hand, does not take his wife to dates or give her gifts anymore. It is not true that emotional affairs happen because of physical or sexual attraction.

This affair usually occurs upon reaching the age of 35 or 40 years of age. This is very common over the Internet or in the work place because this is where people spend most of their time during the day. They are also surrounded with the same people all the time and it is almost impossible that they do not develop any type of attraction.

The best way in preventing emotional affairs from happening is to keep the fire burning. This means that your love must not fade and your feeling from each other must stay the same. You must still do the things you love during the early stage of your marriage such as having movie dates or out-of-town trips. Treat each other the same way everyday. What makes marriage dull is that when one of the spouses becomes inconsistent.

Another important thing is to always have a good line of communication. Ask your spouse about how his or her day went or about future plans. It is vital in every relationship to talk everyday.

If your spouse gets involved in an affair, you must get help immediately. Do not act like it is the end of the world but you should act on it accordingly. Get help from counseling programs if it is available or you can easily get help online. There are a lot of resources you can find that help couples deal with emotional affairs.