My Wife Gets More Pleasure from Masturbation than Intercourse

[Ben]

My wife used to masturbate regularly. And still she needs to do it as we only get once a week to be close to each other, for some unavoidable reasons.

The problem is: she is yet to orgasm. No matter how long I stay-- 10 minutes or 20 minutes. She says she doesn't understand whether she orgasms during intercourse. She also says she doesn't get as much pleasure during intercourse as she gets during masturbation.

I have understood that She really doesn't cum during intercourse. This thing worries us much. She feels much tension for this, me as well. I have tried to convince her that things will be okay once we start living together and have intercourse regularly and frequently.

But I don't know if i was really convincing.

Can you help me?

[Sammy]

First of all it is very COMMON that women get more PHYSICAL pleasure from masturbation than they do from intercourse.

There is much more to making love than just how quickly or how powerfully she has an orgasm.

That said, in the end, with some patience and good intention, the physical pleasure from making love can be grown until it BLOWS AWAY any experience she could have on her own.

The first thing to do is make sure that she feels comfortable, confident, and good about herself... that she does not feel like there is anything "wrong" with how she experiences sexual pleasure.

The second thing is to make sure that she knows that YOU are comfortable, confident, and good about her experiences... that she knows that YOU do not think there is anything "wrong" with how she experiences sexual pleasure.

Your calm, easy, and loving manner around the situation will allow her to relax into having a deeper experience with you.

This may take some time.

She may not trust immediately that you are not just saying it to make her feel better.

You must remain positive in your words and actions, show her that you are playful and happy, and full of attraction for her and that this issue is not important as long as you are both happy.

Then, when she is fully trusting that you are not judging her or disappointed in her, or feeling like there is anything "wrong," you can ask her to share her masturbation with you.

Allow you to watch and enjoy it cradle her body in your arms while she does it, stroke her hair or kiss her as she does it, etc... making it a shared experience... and then, afterwards to participate in the experience, guided by her in touching her and working the magic together as a team.

Soon you will be enjoying love making as an act of loving playfulness.

When there is no more pressure for her to have orgasm during intercourse and she is able to open to the pleasure of how much you enjoy touching her... then she will very likely begin to have deep, powerful orgasms from intercourse.

If someone held a gun to your head and said, if you cannot get an erection, then you will die... well, my friend, if you are like most men, you are going to die.

Because men cannot get erections while under pressure.

Same for her orgasm.

When she is completely free of any doubt or anxiety, it will be much easier.

[David]

Female sexual needs are just as needy as male sexual needs, but in quite different ways. Nothing could be worse for a woman's sex life than being with a man who cannot please her. Sadly, this is very common because a lot of men are completely clueless in this department.

Making women climax may seem hard at first, though this greatly depends on the woman. Several women climax faster than others; however, by improving your bedroom skills, you will discover that you can make practically any woman climax in an instant with several tips, as listed below.

How to Make Women Reach Orgasm in an Instant

Tip Number One: Physical stimulation is not enough. Although it would be more than enough for men, it definitely wouldn't be enough for the majority of women. You also have to emotionally satisfy her. To do this, you have to ensure that she is totally relaxed and doesn't feel any barriers between you. There is virtually no chance of making women reach an orgasm unless they feel secure. You have to make her feel totally comfortable around you and get rid of any inhibitions.

Tip Number Two: You also need to know the female erogenous body zones and these aren't necessarily restricted to obvious ones. On the same note, you have to know about the g-spot since this is how the majority of women reach climax. Also, pay close heed to what she likes when you have sex and get to know her body more. Don't be scared to experiment to find out new things she might like.

Tip Number Three: Do not be scared to ask questions about her possible sexual fantasies. Sex talk before doing the deed will help both of you relax. Without any secrets between the two of you, with regards to your feelings for one another, you can increase your intimacy levels by a lot. This, too, will help women relax and feel completely comfortable with you.

Now a bonus tip that you will find useful if you want to make any woman orgasm fast...

[Clay]

It's the dream to end all dreams, and making a woman orgasm three times in a row is one of the most coveted sexual activities a man can ever encounter. Obviously the woman is not complaining either when it comes to having three orgasms yet to put it in plain terms, being able to create such a sexual fountain of orgasmic activity doesn't come along every day. First and foremost a man should pat himself on the back for being able to excite a woman to the point that she even has one orgasm! Two orgasms and you are in the Orgasmic Hall of Fame right next to such greats as John Holmes and Rudolph Valentino. Three orgasms and consecutively at that, and you my friend are what's referred to as royalty in the bedroom.

Revealing her True Animalistic Nature

A woman desires an orgasm just as much as a man does during sex. Revealing her true animalistic nature along with a wonderful sweeter side that us men just do not possess, is a combination that makes women some of the most dazzling- creatures on planet Earth. That's enough of high-fiving and shaking hands and passing out cigars as there are still many men who have yet to offer a single woman a single orgasmic encounter. Sad and depressing as that may be these men need help and this is where a great educational adventure will begin.

Pre-Planning and Extreme Concentration

In order to make a woman orgasm three times consecutively during one sexual encounter pre-planning and extreme concentration must take place. The questions that must be answered and expeditiously at that concern the lovemaking quarters, lubrication and plenty of liquids. A refreshing beverage will have to be supplied as orgasms and sexual encounters dehydrate a woman to no end.

Not only will you be seen as the man that can give her three orgasms but the care and concerning type as well who not only wants to have sex with her but wants to make sure she is comfortable and well-hydrated. If this woman is not your wife for girl-friend she soon will be your girlfriend and as girls will talk you always want to make sure that the talk is pro-U. The normal method in which to make sure that only good-talk is forthcoming is by do not making any stupid comments while in the company of her and her friends or family and most definitely when it comes to the bedroom activities are spot on in both sexual and orgasmic realities.

How to Make a Woman Orgasm Consecutively

While these lists would be almost too plastic and unfeeling and as a matter of fact way too easy to do right now, it is best that we talk a little bit about how to make a woman orgasm consecutively three times in a row. The main concern here is the first orgasm as without that the number two and number three will just not exist. Start off with the traditional foreplay yet look into her eyes and even tell her that tonight you feel so much for her that you are about to explode.

The love and respect that you have for this woman needs to exude off your body like radiant burst of love filled laser-beam's aimed directly at her heart and soul. After orgasm number one is in the bag it is time to move onto two and three and these can be had in the exact same manner as number one yet stamina and persistence and concentration plus plenty of liquid refreshments to keep you hydrated are mandated requirements. Good luck in the pursuit of orgasmic wonderland and remember this is not work this is pure ecstasy for the man as well as the woman.

[John]

Some men just have no clue what they are doing in the bedroom and this includes you. You just don't know how to please a woman sexually and you don't even know where to start. You can't make her orgasm and it is driving you crazy. This makes you feel like a total loser and you just want to make a change. You want your girl to feel pleasure from you so you need some help.

With female orgasm techniques, you can learn exactly how to touch a woman and what you need to do to insure that you are giving her the best orgasm of her life. You can make her experience multiple orgasms tonight and you are going to learn how to do just that, right now.

The biggest tip that you need to know about touching a woman is that it is all in the clitoris. This is the powerhouse of the female orgasm and it is extremely important that you are giving her stimulation here if you expect to make her orgasm. A lot of men don't even know where the clitoris is and that's a problem. If you look at the female anatomy, there are the lips of the vagina and the clitoris is at the top of the labia majora. The clitoris is small and circular but the biggest thing to know is that you should never touch it directly. You should always stimulate her around the clitoris or else it becomes too sensitive for her. Allowing your tongue or fingers to massage around the clitoris, still gives her the stimulation that she is looking for, but it doesn't overwhelm or hurt her.

Try to get your woman to be open with you and this is a very important female orgasm technique as well. Allowing your woman to talk to you about the pleasure that she wants makes you a better lover. Encourage her to talk to you about what she likes and what she does to herself. Talking to her about her sexuality makes her calmer around you and this opens her up. The more comfortable she feels with you, the more likely she is to have an orgasm with you. This is a tip that you need to know because this is how you get her to orgasm multiple times.

The more you can relax your woman, then the more pleasure she can receive. This is how you get her to orgasm multiple times in one night. These female orgasm techniques can really change the way you please a woman and they can make you a far better lover.

[Ben]

Great advice from you all, thank you.