masturbation and having sex questions

[car10001]

hi everyone

not sure where to put this on here or which forum to ask or both but am wondering how to go about experiencing sex or intimacy with a girl or both and where else youd find a girl to experience it with and how else to do it without waiting for someone or constantly hiring a companion (sometimes may be ok)

also if you live with others and dont feel comfortable asking them for privacy where else could you go that doesnt cost $150-$200 a night every time you want to do it where there is unlimited decent wifi to have sex or masturbate or webcam sex or intimacy especially to do it longer and not have to stop every time you can hear someone or rush it and hope you cant hear others or bother about if anyone is going to notice.

staying in cabin sometimes however is ok.

sometimes you either want to have sex, webcam sex or masturbate and not have to rush it and enjoy it and where you live there is always others around and you seem to have to rush it or wonder if anyone is going to notice and hear things.

next question, is masturbating to pictures of women a problem?, a lot of people seem to do it, is webcam/interactive sex the same as face to face as there are many people that do it long distance, would prefer face to face.

how do you get the penis rock hard and long lasting as sometimes cant get it very hard or it doesn't seem to last or both, is there something non prescription you can take that has no side effects, is viagra ok and no side effects and non prescription, what else is there.

do penis pumps work and how do you use them safely and how long and often do you pump, how do you edge.

can guys wear womens lingerie or wet look underwear and shoes and clothing while masturbating and/or around home

hoping people on here can help

thanks

[car10001]

How did you go with answers

[John]

Exploring intimacy and sexual experiences is a natural part of life, and it’s great that you’re seeking advice on how to navigate these aspects. Let’s break down your questions one by one:

1. Finding a Partner for Intimacy: Meeting someone for intimacy can happen in various ways. Dating apps or websites dedicated to casual encounters can be a starting point. It’s important to communicate openly about your intentions and ensure mutual consent and respect. You can also explore social events or communities where people with similar interests gather, fostering connections that may lead to intimacy.

2. Privacy Concerns: Living with others can indeed pose challenges for privacy. You might consider having honest conversations with your housemates about your need for personal space during certain times. If that's not an option, seeking privacy outside your home, like renting a cabin occasionally, can provide a secluded environment for intimacy without interruptions.

3. **Masturbation and Webcam Intimacy:** Masturbation is a healthy and normal part of sexual expression. Many people use visual aids like pictures or webcam interactions to enhance their experience. It’s only a concern if it interferes with daily life or becomes addictive. Webcam interactions can be similar to face-to-face intimacy, offering a way to connect intimately over distances.

4. Erectile Dysfunction and Enhancements: If you experience difficulties getting or maintaining an erection, it’s essential to consult a healthcare professional. They can assess any underlying causes and recommend suitable treatments, which may include medications like Viagra or non-prescription supplements. It’s crucial to use such medications responsibly and as directed.

5. Penis Pumps and Techniques: Penis pumps can be used to achieve temporary erections by creating a vacuum around the penis. It’s important to follow the instructions carefully to avoid injury and not overuse them. Edging, a technique where arousal is brought to the brink of orgasm and then paused, can help improve stamina and control during intimacy.

6. Personal Preferences and Clothing: Personal preferences in clothing, including lingerie or fetish wear, are entirely normal and can enhance solo or partnered sexual experiences. Exploring what brings you pleasure in a safe and consensual manner is key.

In addressing these topics, it’s crucial to prioritize safety, consent, and open communication in all intimate encounters. Seeking professional guidance for medical concerns or exploring resources related to sexual health and well-being can also provide valuable support. Remember, everyone’s journey and preferences are unique, so it’s essential to find what works best for you while respecting boundaries and mutual enjoyment.

[Peggy]

It sounds like you have several questions about intimacy and sexual experiences, and I'm here to help guide you through them as best I can.

Let's start with experiencing sex or intimacy with a girl. Building intimate connections can be a gradual process that involves communication, trust, and mutual respect. It's essential to approach these experiences with honesty and a genuine desire to connect with another person on an emotional and physical level.

One way to meet potential partners is through social activities or hobbies that you enjoy. Joining clubs, volunteering, or attending events related to your interests can help you meet like-minded individuals. Online dating platforms can also be a way to connect with people who are looking for similar experiences.

When it comes to finding a private space for intimacy, it can be challenging if you live with others and don't feel comfortable asking for privacy. Consider discussing boundaries and privacy needs with your housemates, as open communication can lead to understanding and respect for each other's space.

If privacy at home is limited, you might explore alternatives such as booking a private cabin occasionally or finding other safe and comfortable spaces where you can relax and enjoy intimate moments without interruptions.

Regarding masturbation and sexual content consumption, it's important to remember that what you do in the privacy of your own space is your personal choice. Many people masturbate to pictures or videos, and as long as it's consensual and doesn't harm anyone, it's a normal and healthy part of human sexuality.

Webcam or interactive sex can be an option for long-distance intimacy, but it's essential to prioritize safety and consent. Make sure you're engaging with reputable platforms and respecting the boundaries of the other person involved.

As for maintaining erectile function and stamina, there are non-prescription options like dietary supplements that claim to support sexual performance. However, it's crucial to consult with a healthcare professional before trying any new supplement or medication to ensure it's safe for you and won't interact with any existing health conditions or medications.

Viagra is a prescription medication commonly used to treat erectile dysfunction. While it can be effective for some individuals, it's essential to be aware of potential side effects and consult with a doctor before using it.

Penis pumps are devices designed to help with erectile dysfunction by creating a vacuum around the penis to draw blood into the area. They can be effective for some people, but it's crucial to use them safely and follow the manufacturer's instructions to avoid any potential risks.

Exploring different types of sexual expression, such as wearing lingerie or experimenting with clothing, can be a part of self-expression and sexual exploration. As long as it's consensual and makes you feel comfortable, there's no harm in trying out different things that bring you pleasure.

Overall, the key to healthy sexual experiences is communication, consent, and mutual respect. Take the time to understand your own desires and boundaries, and approach intimacy with openness and understanding. If you have specific concerns or questions, consider reaching out to a healthcare professional or a counselor who specializes in sexual health and relationships.

[jessiemiller]

Thanks, I had the same question!