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Im Christian married to a Muslim man. Before our wedding, I made it clear to him that I will not convert to Islam and he agreed. We were so happy during our first year but things change after that. He demanded me to wear clothes from neck to toe (but not hijab) even during summer and we always argue because of that. I compromise by changing my clothing style but he wants more.Now, he wants me to use a shawl always. Another thing is the food. He dont want me to eat any food that theres no halal code in it. We cannot even eat out. I talked to him many times that we must understand each other as we have different culture and religion but he was so close minded. He never appreciated my sacrifices. He just want me to change.Im so frustrated, exhausted and unhappy . I was trying to compromise everything. And sometimes if I don't, he says that I dont even listen to him which a wife should do. Now, he wants me to cut out my communication with my male friends in social media which Ive known before I met him. One thing more, he always drags my family into our fight. He says I have same attitude with my mom. For the record, he hates my mom. Can someone give me any advice?
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Yup Get a divorce lawyer, They do not compromise at all its their way or the highway. Women to them are objects and try to control everything. Time to move on -
All you are experiencing now is something you should expect once you get married to someone from another religion.
Note that he simply agreed to what you said about not converting to Muslim once you get married to him because he wanted to win you. Now that he has you and now his wife, you are under obligation to do his will.
Don't blame him, he is the man and you are suppose to convert to his religion under normal circumstances.Comment
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You should have yourself to blame in this situation. You should have seen this happening in the future.
Well, learn to cope with it or divorce him and get married to man who is a Christian.Comment
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WTF are you smoking? sexist much? WOW and then you wonder why your single. Get a grip Bret. people can practice what ever religion they want just because they get married don't mean they have to change because he is the guy. WOW is all I can say to thisOriginally posted by Brett View PostComment
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Actually I agree with that guy completely. That is the real world,...not the Politically Correct BS.Originally posted by Lost 73 View Post
Also both Christianity and Islam are exclusive beliefs,...neither allows the "believer" to marry outside their faith. To do so puts the believer in violation of their faith. However Islam gives the guy an "out". It is called "taqiyya" and grants the right to lie to non-Muslims to further the cause of Islam,...so it is ok for him to lie to her,...then when they are married he has the right according to Islam to force her into Islam against her will.Last edited by PRW; 04-03-2018, 08:25 PM.Comment
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Still total bullshit, divorce his ass fast. I don't agree that a MAN should ever control what the WOMAN thinks or believes. But each to your own, Maybe that's why yawl are singleOriginally posted by PRW View PostComment
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If you're single three weeks from now, you're paying for the drinks.Originally posted by Lost 73 View Post
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agreed but just stating facts My shortest relationship has been 4 years and this is only my 4th in the past 25 so I pretty sure that it will be for a bitOriginally posted by PRW View PostComment
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