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Well I am sort of in a predicament I am separated and my husband has a rare blood cancer and nobody to take care of him so here I am trying to make sense of this I separated from him for the way he treated my mom. He is unbearable smartass now a severe snow storm has hit and my daughter and grand daughter is hours away and I asked him a question and he told me to leave and not come back. I don’t want to be here I literally hate him but I feel sorry for him.
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Is it bad to want to leave when he is so sick. He is so mean to me and has started threatening me that he is going to slap me which is not going to happen I’m afraid he will die during this and I won’t be able to live with myself. When I’m in room he is so sweet to nurses but he talks to me like crap I really want to leave but how can I do this -
I think you should overlook his attitude and take care of him now that he's sick. He needs you now more that ever...Comment
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It's true that he treats you badly, but it will be wicked of you to leave him now that he needs you to be there for him. So, for the sakes of God, stay back to take care of him.Comment
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I believe his indifference is all because of his illness and pain. No one except him knows how painful that disease can be. For now, I'm sure the feelings of compassion, care and LOVE are all that we can give especially you are his wife and partner. It really takes tons of understanding to deal with him and his condition. I see it more as a test of love between the two of you. Pray more to God for added strength to bear the difficulties. Connect with other support groups that can help enlighten you more. Stay in forums like this to help you regain your senses and have outlets to lighten your burdens.Comment
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he is no longer your responsibility and obviously don't want you around him at all. why are you mommying an ex husband that you think you hate? seems you are lying to yourself, hate and sorry are oxymorons. go no contact with him and find a decent man who loves you.Comment
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