I'm sure that you've seen books out there on "how to get your ex back". They're immensely popular because let's face it, sometimes breakups happen that we didn't wish for.

And when someone we feel like we're passionately in love with dumps us it hurts...badly.

Now, the plain truth is that as you become more of a chooser than a chaser you'll have more power over your dating life.

That means YOU are soon (if not already) going to be the one breaking...